Infidelity

I have another blog which is kind of inactive because it is a domain where I archived a past chapter of my life. Occasionally, I will log on to check for comments left by readers. Today, I saw a comment posted on an entry I wrote on the remarriage of my ex-husband, more than 3 years ago.

The comment went like this:

"well.. u r rite to leave him.. this type of man actually will always stray.. i saw him out wth a woman several times already. Well.. perhaps its his wife’s punishment to b the 3rd party in yours marriage. Bt you r lucky to leave him.. Glad to see u having a happy marriage life!!"

Instead of thinking, "See! Serve you right, slut!" I was actually feeling quite sorry for the wife of my ex-husband, the mother of his child. No, I am not God nor Saint, but I am a mother too and I know how tough motherhood can be. I feel no mother of a child should deserve an unfaithful husband. Yes, not even her, that so-called bitch.

I hope that reader of my blog was wrong of my ex-husband. I hope he had learned his lesson from our failed marriage. I hope he will treasure his wife and his family this time round.

As for me, I am soaked in the bliss of my marriage and the happiness of our family life. 3 years and 2 lovely children later, sometimes I still wakes up smiling to myself for snaring this great guy.

Lucky me? Perhaps, but luck alone couldn't have done much if not for the commitment we have to honor our marriage vows.

When two hearts are one, it will be our best defense against infidelity.

PS: If you know my ex-husband had done the unthinkable again, tell him that I say this, "Those who blind themselves with self-righteousness and choose to point their blaming fingers only at their partner, will never amount to anything great. And if they have a name, that name spells "L.O.S.E.R"!

Hold it there! I aint' Mrs Dracula, you know!

I returned to work today, after 2 days of MC, looking nothing short of a vampire with my ultra red, blood-shot pair of eyes.

I scanned the MRT train I took this morning for anyone who might look like a priest, for I really don't want to be sharing the same cabin with one. Who knows, the bugger might mistake me for Dracula and then try to drive a stake through my heart!



At the very least, my eyes aren't painful or teary anymore. Let's hope tomorrow, I will look more human than this.

Eye Woe II

I had my worst fear confirmed after a trip to the doctor's clinic. I have officially becomes the 4th victim of Conjunctivitis.

There was so much discharge when I woke up from my nap, I was not able to open my eye! It was disgusting!

Now I can finally understand why those two kids of mine were so fussy when it comes to putting their eye drops because the bloody eye drop leaves a HORRIBLE, bitter after-taste in the mouth that lingers for a long time. It kills my appetite and made me skipped my lunch earlier.

My affected eye is itchy and painful like hell and this is only Day 1. The doc had warned that it will take around 5-7 days to recover from it. Feeling so damn awful already.

Now I am just praying I won't be passing this virus on to anybody else.

Eye Woe

Last Friday, it was SGH; a week later, it's KKH; but this time it wasn't me. My maid called me at work, saying that Leonitus's eyes are red, swollen and teary. I came back home to be shocked by the condition of his eyes.




Leonitus has very long eyelashes but he also has Entropion on his right eye, which make his lower eye lashes turned inward and caused his eye irritation. His pediatrician had already referred him to KKH, but we were unable get an earlier appointment and he was scheduled to see the eye surgeon at the end of the month.

Mr Hubby and I decided not to wait and we rushed him down to KKH. It turned out that it was not Entopion that was causing him the problem but a really bad case of Bacterial Conjunctivitis. What a relief!

However something good came out of this scare; we will able to move our eye appointment up. Leonitus will get to see the eye doctor next week instead of having to wait until the end of the month.

One more thing, Leonitus's left eye had became BIGGER, because his eyelid somehow became doubled after being infected! I am wondering if this change is gonna stay permanent. If it is, then I am hoping for his right eyelid to double too!